The story of David’s relationship with his son Absalom is sad, but it has important lessons for us. When Absalom murdered his brother Amnon, he fled to Geshur where he stayed for three years (2 Sam. 13:28–34). During the years of Absalom’s self-exile, David longed to go to him, but sadly he never did. Joab, perceiving the longing in David’s heart for his son, appealed for Absalom’s return, and David accepted. Absalom returned, but two full years passed and it was not until Absalom insisted on seeing his father that this finally happened: “he came to the king and bowed himself on his face to the ground before the king. Then the king kissed Absalom.” On the surface, all seemed good; it seemed that reconciliation had been accomplished—but it was not so. Reality revealed itself during the subsequent years, which culminated in a conspiracy and rebellion by Absalom against his father, resulting in Absalom’s death.

What a different reunion was that of the prodigal son and his father, where true confession and full rich reception were experienced!

How we need to be honest in our relationships in our families, marriages, and places of worship. God will not be mocked. We cannot enjoy the Lord’s Supper together, showing happy fellowship and unity of heart, if it does not exist. How important it is that reconciliation be true and sincere. If not, the results will be displayed sooner or later with great negative consequences.